At any moment you can change the trajectory of your life by shifting your thoughts. Your reality begins in your mind and determines the way you see and interface with life, love and others. Today, I implore you to begin to look at things differently. What is the silver lining? How can this unexpected event, situation, etc. serve as a catalyst for something (albeit unplanned), but amazing? What would happen if you began to view life filled with opportunities instead of obstacles? Take the first step and shift your thoughts. This breakup is not the end of your world or life, but you cannot experience all of the love you desire if you continue to view self as a victim or that your Ex holds the only key to your happiness and health.